VISIT DALLAS: What role does mentorship play in your career, and who are some mentors that have inspired you along the way?
CHIOMA UBOGAGU: I think mentorship is pivotal in just doing this thing called life, so I have the same mindset regarding a sports profession. I believe in order to have longevity and success in a career, it takes a village. My mom is hands down my biggest mentor for a multitude of reasons. She is a strong, loving, Nigerian woman, so this means she will always give me the truth. Always. I’ve had my growing pains with this, especially when I was younger in my career, but I realized that my mom has standing. For one, she is my mom, and she knows me far better than most, and two, she is the only person who has visited me in every single city I have played in professionally. Instead of being defensive, I tried to adapt to a growth mindset. How can I take what she’s telling me and start working on said critique in training? This approach has helped me a lot!
The other two mentors that have impacted my career immensely are my high school coach Chris Stricker and my collegiate coach Paul Ratcliffe. Stricker let me be me at all times, and he never tried to change me. I appreciate this so much because it let me succeed AND fail in the ways I needed to be the person I am today. He led our team with grace and fortitude, and he taught me a life lesson I still try to embody this very day: you reap what you sow. We got that engraved inside our 2009 5A state championship rings.
Paul Ratcliffe influenced not just my soccer trajectory, but my life itself because he recruited me to go to Stanford University. I was surrounded by excellence everywhere I looked inside the classroom and out of it, and perhaps more importantly, I was surrounded by people willing to help me achieve whatever I wanted. Coach Paul also taught me how to bend a ball, so I owe him a big thank you for that too!